Child Custody for Unmarried Parents in Alberta: What Are the Rights and Legal Options

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For parents who were never married to each other, the first question in Alberta is guardianship: whether a parent is a guardian of their child under the Family Law Act. The answer decides what that parent may do and how the parenting-order route opens.

When a Parent Is a Guardian

Every child in Alberta is subject to guardianship. Whether a particular parent is a guardian is a question the Family Law Act answers with two conditions and a time limit.

A parent is a guardian if both conditions are met. The parent has acknowledged that they are a parent of the child, and the parent has demonstrated an intention to assume the responsibility of a guardian. The second condition carries its own limit: that intention must be demonstrated within one year of the parent becoming aware of the pregnancy or of the birth, whichever is earlier.

Both conditions have to be satisfied, and the time limit belongs to the second of them. A parent who meets one and not the other is not a guardian under that provision.

The Act then sets out the ways that intention is demonstrated. Each of these is a circumstance the Act names.

Marriage and adult interdependent partnership

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    Being married to the child's other parent when the child is born.

  2. 2

    Being the other parent's adult interdependent partner when the child is born, or becoming one after the birth.

  3. 3

    Marrying the other parent after the birth.

  4. 4

    A marriage to the other parent that ended by death, by a declaration of nullity or by divorce within 300 days before the birth.

Living together

Cohabiting with the other parent for at least 12 consecutive months during which the child was born.

An agreement

Entering an agreement with the other parent to be a guardian of the child, where that agreement meets the requirements the regulations set.

Carrying the child, and assisted reproduction

Carrying the pregnancy to term. Being a parent of a child born of assisted reproduction, as the Act provides for that.

Supporting the child or the birth mother

  1. 1

    Voluntarily providing or offering reasonable support to the birth mother during or after the pregnancy, other than under a court order.

  2. 2

    Voluntarily providing or offering reasonable support for the child, other than under a court order.

Any other circumstance a court finds

On an application, any other circumstance the court finds demonstrates that the parent intended to assume the responsibility of a guardian.

Where the pregnancy resulted from a sexual assault, the parent who committed the assault is not eligible to be a guardian under that section. The court may make that finding whether or not a charge was laid or a conviction obtained.

If the conditions are not met, there is still an application. A parent who is not a guardian may apply for a guardianship order. So may an adult who has had the care and control of the child for more than six months. What the court then considers on that application is a question for a lawyer.

What Being a Guardian Actually Carries

Guardianship is a set of responsibilities and a set of powers, and the Family Law Act lists both.

The responsibilities

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    To nurture the child's physical, psychological and emotional development and to guide the child towards independent adulthood.

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    To ensure the child has the necessaries of life, including medical care, food, clothing and shelter.

The powers, and the words the Act puts in front of them

The Act introduces the powers with a qualification: except where otherwise limited by law, including a parenting order. A parenting order is one example the provision gives, not the only limit it contemplates.

What the powers cover

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    Day-to-day decisions and the care and control of the child.

  2. 2

    Deciding and changing the child's place of residence.

  3. 3

    Decisions about education.

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    The child's cultural, linguistic, religious and spiritual upbringing and heritage.

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    With whom the child is to live and associate.

  6. 6

    Consent to health-related treatment.

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    Receiving and responding to notices.

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    Receiving health, education and other information from third parties.

The two duties that frame all of it

A guardian exercises the powers, responsibilities and entitlements of guardianship in the best interests of the child. And a guardian exercising any of the powers that provision lists must do so in a manner consistent with the evolving capacity of the child.

What Follows From Guardianship

Where a child has more than one guardian, the Act says what each owes the other and what happens when they cannot agree.

Each guardian must give information to another guardian at that guardian's request, and each must use their best efforts to co-operate on issues affecting the child. Those are duties the Act places on guardians directly, not descriptions of good practice.

Where guardians cannot agree in exercising the powers, responsibilities and entitlements of guardianship — and, where those guardians are the parents, are living separate and apart — the court may make a parenting order on the application of one or more of them.

An allocation to one guardian does not end the other's entitlement to be told. Unless the court orders otherwise, where a power or responsibility of guardianship is allocated to one guardian, the other guardian or guardians remain entitled to make inquiries and to be given information about any significant matter arising in connection with the exercise of that power or responsibility.

What a parenting order can allocate, and how parenting time and decision-making responsibility work under each of the two Acts, is set out in parenting time after separation.

Where separation between partners who were not married raises property and support questions alongside the child, those are covered in common-law separation in Alberta.

How parenting time, decision-making responsibility and guardianship fit together across the two Acts is set out in parenting, decision-making and child custody.

How a Lawyer Helps

A family lawyer can work out whether you are a guardian on your facts, advise on which of the Act's circumstances applies to you, prepare or review a guardianship agreement, and bring or respond to an application for a guardianship order or a parenting order.

Why THEBIL Law

THEBIL Law is a family law firm in Calgary handling family law matters including parenting and child custody, divorce, family property, child support and spousal support.

Talk to THEBIL Law

Contact THEBIL Law to discuss your situation and the questions you want to address. The consultation request form can be submitted at any time, and the office makes contact to arrange a meeting.

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